Comments on: So I’ve outed myself to the boyfriend

By: Shola

Shola — Thu, 05 Mar 2009 16:37:48 +0000

Can;t believe you came out to Clay, brave move, think your blog will chage because you know he is reading it?

1. If you have a blog and a significant other (SO: boyfriend/girlfriend, fiance/fiancee, wife/husband, dog, cat, etc.) do they a) know about your blog and b) do they read it?
No one except my friend an her bf.

2. If you answered yes (or no!) to either of the above questions, how often do you write about your SO in your blog entries?
Quite a bit, I mean I am with her a lot of the time. It’s only natural!!

3. How often do you write negative things about your SO in your blog entries?
Never.

4. And if your SO knows about and reads your blog, how much control (or voice) do you allow them to have in regards to the amount of censoring in terms of material that you post up about them or your relationship in general?
None, it’s my freakin site innit? 🙂 She has her own site and I don’t have(or want) any control over her blog at all.

By: Lauren

Lauren — Wed, 04 Mar 2009 16:01:35 +0000

Well, I hope that he doesn’t throw too big a deal about being written about. I mean, you are pretty general, so it’s not like we can come find him and stalk him, or anything. 😛 And it’s not like the things you write about him a big secret, either. (Leastways, I wouldn’t expect so. ;P)

1. I do not have a significant other, but I do have a few friends who come up occasionally in my blogs; they know that my blog exists, but, as far as I know, they never visit, nor do they care if I write about them from time to time.
And, really, they rarely come up — the only person I habitually mention is Hannah, and given that she owns her own site, it’s really not a big deal. ^_^

Honestly, few people that I know offline know of my site (they know I web design, but don’t know the URL), and none of them visit. I like to keep them away — it just feels weird when they enter my online world, you know? 🙂

By: Jeanine

Jeanine — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 22:00:40 +0000

* That he at the end was supposed to be HEEHE *

By: Jeanine

Jeanine — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 22:00:25 +0000

Crap I missed your last entry… I’ll do this one!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

1. If you have a blog and a significant other (SO: boyfriend/girlfriend, fiance/fiancee, wife/husband, dog, cat, etc.) do they a) know about your blog and b) do they read it?

– My husband knows about it and looks at it a lot but I don’t think he reads it all… I always tell him to check out my new post or what not, especially if I post pics or get a lot of really nice comments.. so he will!

2. If you answered yes (or no!) to either of the above questions, how often do you write about your SO in your blog entries?

– Depends. On his days off hes usually always in my posts, but it just depends on the happenings of the week – day to day – I always blog about my days and hes usually at work so I’ll blog about him whenever!

3. How often do you write negative things about your SO in your blog entries?

– I’ve never written anything negative about my hubby. Doubt I ever would .. If there was something it would probably be too personal to post but as of yet.. I’ve got nothing!

– My hubby wouldn’t ever tell me what to/not to post. He doesn’t care and trusts my judgement and says to post to my hearts content…. He

By: Caity

Caity — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 15:17:00 +0000

I totally yelled “HI CLAY!” Don’t worry – nobody was around. I’m glad that you told him. I’m sure he will enjoy reading it. Most of the posts about him are awesome anyway.

1. Josh knows about my blog but he refuses to read it even when I ask him to read “a really good entry.” His logic is that anything I write there I’ve probably already told him or that I should be telling him since we hide nothing from each other. He wants to respect my privacy and let me have my blog without having to worry about his reaction to reading it. I respect him for that.

2. I write about him all the time.

3. When there’s something negative I usually only touch the surface, but only because I feel it’s nobody’s business when we fight. Usually I’ll vent about it at my locked LiveJournal.

4. He says post whatever I want. He says part of love is giving the other person all the ammunition they’ll ever need to hurt you so badly that they could destroy you… but knowing that they never would.

By: Michelle

Michelle — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 07:12:33 +0000

@Jenna – … I have deep dark secrets about squirrels and trips to the craft stores? lol Pretty sure I’ve gone on and on about squirrels and craft stores to the boyfriend before. 😉

And it’s not a deep dark castle. 🙁 It’s a light and cheery kingdom!

By: Jenna

Jenna — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 01:20:38 +0000

Welcome Clay, to the DEEP DARK CASTLE KNOWN AS MICHELLES BLOG!!! It’s filled with deep dark secrets about adventures with squirrels and trips to Craft Stores!

1) I don’t have a SO but I do have some people I don’t want reading my blog *cough*Daddy Dearest*cough*

a)No, my Dad doesn’t know thank god
b)No, I really don’t think so

2)LOL I don’t write about my Dad’s annoyances as much as I used to. I USUALLY, note usually just ignore him or do a little post on Twitter about how he’s bothering me

3)Do I ever write anything positive about Daddy Dearest?

4)LOL none but even if I had an SO I wouldn’t let them censor anything.

I forgot to mention the other things I’d do with the money on the blog yesterday. Was it yesterday? I think it was yesterday/

-Gardenning since I mostly get veges, and fruits now. Free (sorta) fruits and veges = yay!
-Buy webhosting
-Pet animal preferably cat, or fishes maybe a hamster.
-Travel. Hello Asia, Hello Europe and maybe Hello Iceland I’d like to see a polar icecap before it all melts.
-Bussiness ventures sound nice

By: Cody

Cody — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 00:23:30 +0000

Hi Clay! (Or something.)

I once had a “private” LiveJournal in which I wrote about some of our issues early on in the relationship. It took me about a month to let him in. Other than that, he’s known of all my blogs from the beginning. And he’s read them all.

I haven’t blogged about anything terribly personal in years, so it’s really not an issue.

Forums are where I draw the line. I wouldn’t like him poking around there and seeing what I say, even if it’s not that interesting. That’s where I hang out with “the girls” I guess. Even if I haven’t been active on Verity in a long time.

By: nichole

nichole — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 00:21:34 +0000

david knows about my blog. a bunch of people in real life do. but none of them read it, because they don’t want to disrespect my privacy
2.i write about david alot in my posts
3. i write what i feel. alot of times it is negative (well kinda lately lol)
4. i wouldnt let anyone tell me what to write. they are my feelings. and feelings change..so if it helps me to write things instead of saying them, well so be it