Sunday Sex Survey

Written on December 7, 2008 at 11:25 am
Filed under: Survey

Basically, I have questions and you, my darling readers, have the answers! So please fill out the survey (feel free to skip questions that you’re not comfortable answering). And no, not all of the question are related to sex. “Sunday Sex and Relationship Survey” just doesn’t have the same ring to it, after all.

  1. How many months (days? weeks? years??) into the relationship did it take for you or your significant other (from now on referred to as the S/O) to say “I love you”?
  2. Who said it first?
  3. Was “I love you” said before or after the first time that the two of you had sex?
  4. How old were you the first time that you had sex?
  5. How far into the relationship was it until you first had sex with your S/O?
  6. Who had more experience: you or your S/O?
  7. If you don’t live with your S/O, how often do you communicate without being face-to-face?
  8. After the initial time that you had sex with your S/O, did you spend more or less time with them doing non-sexual-activities?
  9. Have you ever dated someone that your parents would not approve of (i.e. either by socio-economic status, race, education) how did they react when they found out? (Did they find out or did you just keep it a secret?) How did they react?
  10. Did you plan the first time that you had sex or was it just a spur-of-the-moment thing?

11 Responses to “Sunday Sex Survey”

  1. Jenn says:

    I’m going to post this on jenn.nu and link back! :)

  2. Kelsey says:

    1.How many months (days? weeks? years??) into the relationship did it take for you or your significant other (from now on referred to as the S/O) to say “I love you”?
    2 months

    2. Who said it first?
    He did.

    3. Was “I love you” said before or after the first time that the two of you had sex?
    Before

    4. How old were you the first time that you had sex?
    16

    5. How far into the relationship was it until you first had sex with your S/O?
    4 months

    6. Who had more experience: you or your S/O?
    Neither, we were pretty much on a even playing field for sex and related activities.

    7. If you don’t live with your S/O, how often do you communicate without being face-to-face?
    Daily. Free text messaging/phone calls ftw.

    8. After the initial time that you had sex with your S/O, did you spend more or less time with them doing non-sexual-activities?
    My situation was odd. We definitely spent more time doing non-sexual things for reasons you know but I don’t want to explain in a comment on your blog

    9. Have you ever dated someone that your parents would not approve of (i.e. either by socio-economic status, race, education) how did they react when they found out? (Did they find out or did you just keep it a secret?) How did they react?
    I’ve wanted to date people that my parents didn’t approve of due to age differences, but we never dated so it was all good.

    10. Did you plan the first time that you had sex or was it just a spur-of-the-moment thing?
    A bit of both. It wasn’t meticulously planned out and I didn’t know if it was going to happen that day. But it did.

  3. Aimee says:

    1.How many months (days? weeks? years??) into the relationship did it take for you or your significant other (from now on referred to as the S/O) to say “I love you”?
    well we’d been seeing each other for 2 weeks before we were official.. so about 2 weeks into the relationship (officially) but a month after we met and started seeing each other

    2. Who said it first?
    Him

    3. Was “I love you” said before or after the first time that the two of you had sex?
    After way way way after lol

    4. How old were you the first time that you had sex?
    15

    5. How far into the relationship was it until you first had sex with your S/O?
    We’d met 6 days before lol. But we weren’t in a relationship, just seeing each other (i guess you’d call it dating?)

    6. Who had more experience: you or your S/O?
    He’s slept with one more person than me but i’d probably had sex more times seen as the majority of his were one night stands

    7. If you don’t live with your S/O, how often do you communicate without being face-to-face?
    Live with him

    8. After the initial time that you had sex with your S/O, did you spend more or less time with them doing non-sexual-activities?
    Lol we used to be at it like rabbits.. 7 times in a day sometimes.. so i’ll go with mostly sexual activities. After 2 and a half years thats definately changed lol

    9. Have you ever dated someone that your parents would not approve of (i.e. either by socio-economic status, race, education) how did they react when they found out? (Did they find out or did you just keep it a secret?) How did they react?
    Nope not at all. My mum and dad dont have the right to approve/not approve in my opinion.

    10. Did you plan the first time that you had sex or was it just a spur-of-the-moment thing?
    First time ever was planned.. first time with my ex and first tiime with ry weren’t.

  4. Amanda says:

    I’m also going to post this on my blog with a link back to your site. :)

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  6. Cody says:

    1. How many months (days? weeks? years??) into the relationship did it take for you or your significant other (from now on referred to as the S/O) to say “I love you”?
    Three months.

    2. Who said it first?
    He did.

    3. Was “I love you” said before or after the first time that the two of you had sex?
    Three months before.

    4. How old were you the first time that you had sex?
    Seventeen.

    5. How far into the relationship was it until you first had sex with your S/O?
    Six months.

    6. Who had more experience: you or your S/O?
    He did, but we were both virgins.

    7. If you don’t live with your S/O, how often do you communicate without being face-to-face?
    We do live together, but there is usually a little texting and calls when we’re at work.
    Mostly “Pick me up at 6:00″ and “What do you want for dinner?” texts.

    8. After the initial time that you had sex with your S/O, did you spend more or less time with them doing non-sexual-activities?
    Probably the same.

    9. Have you ever dated someone that your parents would not approve of (i.e. either by socio-economic status, race, education) how did they react when they found out? (Did they find out or did you just keep it a secret?) How did they react?
    N/A

    10. Did you plan the first time that you had sex or was it just a spur-of-the-moment thing?
    We’d talked about it, and I knew there was a good chance of it happening when he asked me to come over when his parents were out of town for the night… but, it wasn’t really planned.

  7. Nicole says:

    1. How many months (days? weeks? years??) into the relationship did it take for you or your significant other (from now on referred to as the S/O) to say “I love you”? Probably a few weeks. I do not remember exactly.

    2. Who said it first? He thinks I did but I know he did. LOL

    3. Was “I love you” said before or after the first time that the two of you had sex? Before

    4. How old were you the first time that you had sex? 18

    5. How far into the relationship was it until you first had sex with your S/O? We had talked online for about a year and a half

    6. Who had more experience: you or your S/O? He did

    7. If you don’t live with your S/O, how often do you communicate without being face-to-face? We do live together but right now he’s away – we text and call. Texting at least once a day. Calling not so much

    8. After the initial time that you had sex with your S/O, did you spend more or less time with them doing non-sexual-activities? Well, initially we had a lot of sex. Probably did more of that than anything else. LOL But now it’s evened out

    9. Have you ever dated someone that your parents would not approve of (i.e. either by socio-economic status, race, education) how did they react when they found out? (Did they find out or did you just keep it a secret?) How did they react? Eh, I’ve never really cared.

    10. Did you plan the first time that you had sex or was it just a spur-of-the-moment thing? We knew we would have sex in a certain time period but not exactly when

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  9. Kristi says:

    How many months (days? weeks? years??) into the relationship did it take for you or your significant other (from now on referred to as the S/O) to say “I love you”?
    – We’ve known eachother since we were ten. We got together when we were sixteen and we said “I love yous” a month after officially being together. Of course, as we have grown older the love has grown deeper.

    Who said it first?
    – He did.

    Was “I love you” said before or after the first time that the two of you had sex?
    – Definitely before. I wouldn’t sleep with someone if we didn’t love eachother. Having sex with someone you love is so much more deep than just sex, that’s why they call it making love.

    How old were you the first time that you had sex?
    – Too young. I just turned fourteen.

    How far into the relationship was it until you first had sex with your S/O?
    – I also knew him since I was ten, we met in person in June when we were thirteen and we had sex the first time in December when I had just turned fourteen but we’d already said our I Love Yours and meant it.

    Who had more experience: you or your S/O?
    – In my first ever sexual relationship, neither. In my current, me but..barely.

    If you don’t live with your S/O, how often do you communicate without being face-to-face?
    – When I didn’t live with him, we communicating via phone or on WoW (college days).

    After the initial time that you had sex with your S/O, did you spend more or less time with them doing non-sexual-activities?
    – Um.. after we had sex the first time, that’s all we wanted so most of our time that wasn’t in public was spent having sex as yours would be. I got tired of all the sex but since he had it, that’s all he wanted. Typical male, don’t expect anything different.

    Have you ever dated someone that your parents would not approve of (i.e. either by
    socio-economic status, race, education) how did they react when they found out? (Did they find out or did you just keep it a secret?) How did they react?
    – No, my mom has no preference. She didn’t say much except she knew we did it.

    Did you plan the first time that you had sex or was it just a spur-of-the-moment thing?
    – Alot of times it WILL be spur of the moment. Granted, those people who really care how their first time is may plan it out and stick to it but for the most part, it just happens.

    All I have to say to you, is don’t do it. I think you’ll regret it.

  10. Josephine says:

    Is michelley planning to have sex…?

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