Filed under: Friends
I have a question for everyone (the general public, in general), but it needs a bit of an explanation first.
I have a friend who told me today that he/she (attempting not to disclose a gender to this friend, ugh, I’m going to kick myself for this effort later) went to strip club over the weekend another friend. Then he/she watches my face like I’m supposed to suddenly be super disgusted or super elated for them that they decided to do this. Keep in mind that I know that he/she is currently in a relationship and I’m really just like “That’s nice, did you have fun?” and he/she looks at me like I’m absolutely insane and goes “You’re not mad? Really?”
Why would someone that I am not in a relationship with think that I would be mad or angry over their extra-curricular activities? Why would someone that I am not in a relationship with think that I would kinda care over how they spend their hard-earned money?
Hell, if the Boy told me that he went to a strip club with a friend, I don’t think that I’d particularly care. Unless, of course, he canceled a date with me for it. In which case I’d get pissed off just on principle.
If someone that you know told you that they went to a strip club (or some other legal adult establishment), what kind of response do you think that you would give?